How to Develop an Instant Trust With Women
The reason why some men have high confidence with women is that they stay close to them and work hard. Remember anything or trade that you have had, when you started doing it, the safest thing is that you were not very good, but with the time and your effort, you became more skilled. In the same way, it works when it comes to developing trust with women.
In today's post, we will talk about how to have that steel confidence with women. As we know, each girl is unique and with her complexities. So, how can we create a unique strategy that will help us to conquer all of them? Of course, all women in their behavior are different from each other, but when it comes to how they find a man attractive, they are very similar to each other.
Something that all women will always agree on is that they love a confident and confident man. There is a false belief in thinking that some men are safe because they are beautiful - when in fact it is the other way around: Men look attractive because they are very reliable.
Now we wonder if self-confidence is the first quality that women find attractive in men, why do not most men develop more confidence to seduce more women?
What is self-confidence and why do women find it so attractive? And the question everyone asks: "How do you get it?" Well, let's refresh the memory of what we have said in the previous articles: it is a common belief that women are attracted to some men for their money. The reason why women seem to fall to wealthy men is that human beings react with a principle called "sequential trend mentality," which means that our thinking process usually follows a pattern of "if this happens, then the other happens too. "
When a woman observes a wealthy man, she automatically thinks "... this could the man be for me. I can have what I want. The most likely thing is that he will treat me well. "But in his subconscious, there is much more than that simple thought process of" this man can support me financially ". After all, many men in the world would treat her well - a man who is not wealthy could be the most caring and attentive boyfriend he ever had! - But she probably will not be attracted to him because other factors come into play in that situation. Women know that having money is indicative of different desirable qualities that make them a man of high value, including self-confidence. Think again of the above: If you have money, it is probably because you are a worker, you are an intelligent man, non-conformist, enterprising, awake, etc.
If you earned a lot of money working, you might have a commanding position in which many people depend on you. Women typically find the ability of a man to be able to act under a lot of pressure and have many responsibilities very attractive.
Women like men who hold leadership positions because it means that people follow them, trust them, be a guide, know where they are going and value their opinions and ideas. A man who can make another person feel valuable just by being with them.
Trust, essentially, can increase the value of those around you. That is why men without money but who have this unique quality are still good-looking to girls, women who are independent.
So, how to project, reflect this ability when you meet a girl? First, we must review what happens in a girl's head when she meets you and decides how attractive you are. How does she evaluate you? How is she able to read your personality as quickly as you are reading this article?
The most obvious characteristic that we can all read more naturally on the outside of everyone we know: His non-verbal language. I will not go into details because this article is only about trust, but I will touch on several important points about it, so, for now, it is enough for you to know that humans read body language instantly and draw many conclusions based on the information we get by doing it.
Why do we rely so much on nonverbal language messages? Can not you easily pretend? In fact, no. In body language, it resides basically in your subconscious mind, which means that you are not fully aware of the messages you are sending.
Your subconscious mind also harbors your emotions, so, whatever you are feeling at a certain moment tends to express itself through your body language. Very few people manage to fully learn to effectively control their body language, so it represents a source of accurate and reliable information about a person.
Now we ask ourselves: If non-verbal language is controlled by emotions, what controls emotions? And if you discover what controls your emotions, can you take control of your body language and your emotions? Would not it be great to have the power to make sure that you will never be nervous, insecure, anxious, angry?
Well, let me tell you: What your emotions control are your beliefs. If you think you are confident, you will be. If you think you are optimistic, you will be. If you think you are valuable, others will believe it too. If you think you are not scarce, your non-verbal language will project those negative messages. And because your body language is controlled by your emotions and your emotions are controlled by your beliefs, women read your body language to assess what you believe, so make sure your beliefs are not limiting your success.
I do not tell you that redefining and reinventing your belief system is something that is easy because for most people it is not, but it is one of the most important things you will do. To be a true gallant with women, every man must reach the point of controlling their emotions and be positive so that their body language flows naturally with those emotions.
It is up to you to decide to change and have a belief system that is powerfully positive which will make you more attractive to women. If you do not commit to strive to achieve it, it will not matter all the techniques of seduction that you learn.
You could read an article many times, but you will continue to them. It is not until you decide to believe and trust yourself that you will be attractive to women . Women tend to read body language more easily than men, and are very good at detecting if you are lying, so they will immediately notice if you are faking.
It is much more effective to create a new personal belief system. There are some situations that everyone goes through when trying to create a new belief system. In the first stage, you must convince yourself that the new belief is true. In the second, you must express it and convince others. And then, you must solidify that belief so much that there is no doubt in your mind. Even if the evidence against you is presented later, you must be so sure of your belief that you should not abandon it.
In fact, being aware that you can control your value just by believing that you are attractive is such a powerful concept that only this will bring you a great deal of success very quickly. Your self-image dominates your thinking and your behavior. You act precisely according to the way in which you think "how are you." If you think that "everything will be super good" and if you can believe it with a lot of security, the women will perceive that signal and will capture the high confidence that you have in yourself. No one is going to believe something that you do not think is right. But if you believe that it is the truth, it is very likely that others will believe it too.